bodyguard – Dating Bliss For Singles and Those In a Relationship 10

SEXUAL FAMILIARITY BEFORE MARRIAGE CAN BE VERY DEADLY
Sexual immorality and sexual perversion has surprisingly become a major problem in the church especially among youths Engagement is not a guarantee for sexual familiarity.
Sexual familiarity like kissing, necking, snuffing, romance erotic contacts, fumbling and actual sex is ungodly and destructive outside marriage.
Even hugging can be very dangerous under some circumstances God created sex to be enjoyed within the confine of marriage and anything outside that is evil and attracts divine consequences.
KEEP YOURSELF PURE AND YOUR BED UNDEFILED.
Many people have had their dreams shattered and their life shattered due to pre-marital sex. You cannot eat your cake and have it. So before you disobey God next time, think of the consequences of the act.
CHECK YOUR ASSUMPTIONS BEFORE COMMITMENT
Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge and when we assume, our knowledge is on zero level. Don’t assume thing without verifying for assurance before marital commitment. You have to be sure of the following.
– Do you want children and how many?
– How do you relate with in-laws?
– Will there be squatters in your home?
– Where will you both settle in i.e house location?
– Where will be your place of worship etc.
“He should know” and she should know” always equals to “no one knows” so refuse assumptions. A man got married and assumed that the wife wanted children only to discover few years later that she had been using pills without his knowledge.
GUYS AVOID CANOPY MINISTRY
Jesus rebuked the Pharisees because they wait at the gate of the Kingdom without going in, and they also hinder those that want to go in.
Some guys have taken upon themselves the canopy ministry of standing as fence to some ladies all in the name of brotherly care.
They operate like mafias and hinder such ladies from being exposed to wholesome relationships that will bless them. They monopolise the ladies and also operate on an undeserved possessiveness of the lady’s time. Even though they have no formal relationship or intention to marry such ladies.
Even though it is alright for guys to shield the ladies from church wolves who claim to be brother’s but have a deadly mission. It should not be taken to the extreme.
Ladies too should remove these canopies from their heads so that they can connect to wholesome relationships. May your bodyguard not become your prison warden.
AVOID THE DOUBLE DATING SPIRIT
It is unfortunately true that some single Christians have allowed some worldly and devilish wisdom to operate in them.
To date two people at the same time with the plan of choosing the most suitable is an ungodly and demonic attitude. It is a sign of insecurity, and spiritual shallowness.
To have more than one man/woman in your life at a time is prostitute, so single Christians should trust God absolutely and operate on God’s pattern for victory.
Double dating is a dangerous game that has negative consequences.
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.
James 1:8
DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WANT TO BE DONE UNTO YOU.
How will you feel if you suddenly discover that the person you’ve given your total commitment to is having someone else apart from you? Selah.

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